Marriage
Genesis 2:18 — And the
Lord God said, “It
is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a
helper comparable to him.”
Malachi 2:14 — Yet you say, “For what reason?” Because
the Lord has been
witness Between you and the wife of your youth, With whom you
have dealt treacherously; Yet she is your companion And your
wife by covenant.
Proverbs 2:16-17 — To deliver you from the immoral woman,
From the seductress who flatters with her words, Who
forsakes the companion of her youth, And forgets the covenant of
her God.
Ephesians 5:22-33 — Wives, submit to your own husbands,
as to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, as also
Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body.
Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let
the wives be to their own husbands in everything.
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church
and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her
with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her
to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any
such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. So
husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he
who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own
flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does
the church. For we are members of His body, of His flesh and of
His bones. “For this reason a man shall leave his father and
mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become
one flesh.” This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning
Christ and the church. Nevertheless let each one of you in
particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife
see that she respects her husband.
1 Peter 3:1-9 — Wives, likewise, be submissive to
your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they,
without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, when
they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear. Do
not let your adornment be merely outward—arranging the
hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel— rather
let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the
incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which
is very precious in the sight of God. For in this manner, in
former times, the holy women who trusted in God also adorned
themselves, being submissive to their own husbands, as Sarah
obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose daughters you are if you
do good and are not afraid with any terror. Husbands, likewise,
dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the
wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs
together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be
hindered. Finally, all of you be of one mind, having
compassion for one another; love as brothers, be
tenderhearted, be courteous; not returning evil for evil
or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary blessing, knowing
that you were called to this, that you may inherit a blessing.
1 Corinthians 7:3-5 — Let the husband render to his wife
the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her
husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but
the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have
authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not
deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may
give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again
so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of
self-control.
1 Corinthians 7:7-9 — For I wish that all men were even
as I myself. But each one has his own gift from God, one in this
manner and another in that. But I say to the unmarried and to
the widows: It is good for them if they remain even as I am; but
if they cannot exercise self-control, let them marry. For it is
better to marry than to burn with passion.
1 Corinthians 7:10-16 — Now to the married I command,
yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her
husband. But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried
or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to
divorce his wife. But to the rest I, not the Lord, say:
If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is
willing to live with him, let him not divorce her. And a woman
who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live
with her, let her not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband
is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is
sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be
unclean, but now they are holy. But if the unbeliever departs,
let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in
such cases. But God has called us to peace. For how do
you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or
how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your
wife?
1 Corinthians 7:25-40 — Now concerning virgins: I have no
commandment from the Lord; yet I give judgment as one whom the
Lord in His mercy has made trustworthy. I suppose
therefore that this is good because of the present distress—
that it is good for a man to remain as he is: Are you
bound to a wife? Do not seek to be loosed. Are you loosed from a
wife? Do not seek a wife. But even if you do marry, you have not
sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned.
Nevertheless such will have trouble in the flesh, but I would
spare you. But this I say, brethren, the time is short,
so that from now on even those who have wives should be as
though they had none, those who weep as though they did not
weep, those who rejoice as though they did not rejoice, those
who buy as though they did not possess, and those who use this
world as not misusing it. For the form of this world is
passing away. But I want you to be without care. He who is
unmarried cares for the things of the Lord—how he may please the
Lord. But he who is married cares about the things of the
world—how he may please his wife. There is a difference
between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the
things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in
spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the
world—how she may please her husband. And this I say for
your own profit, not that I may put a leash on you, but for what
is proper, and that you may serve the Lord without distraction.
But if any man thinks he is behaving improperly toward his
virgin, if she is past the flower of youth, and thus it must be,
let him do what he wishes. He does not sin; let them marry.
Nevertheless he who stands steadfast in his heart, having no
necessity, but has power over his own will, and has so
determined in his heart that he will keep his virgin, does well.
So then he who gives her in marriage does well, but he
who does not give her in marriage does better. A wife is
bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband
dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only
in the Lord. But she is happier if she remains as she is,
according to my judgment—and I think I also have the Spirit of
God.
Hebrews 13:4 — Marriage is honorable among all,
and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will
judge.
Matthew 22:30 — For in the resurrection they neither
marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels of God in
heaven.
Luke 20:34-35 — Jesus answered and said to them, “The
sons of this age marry and are given in marriage. But those who
are counted worthy to attain that age, and the resurrection from
the dead, neither marry nor are given in marriage;
Proverbs 18:22 — He who finds a wife finds a good
thing, And obtains favor from the
Lord.
Ephesians 4:25-32 — Therefore, putting away lying, “Let
each one of you speak truth with his neighbor,”
for we are members of one another. “Be angry, and do not sin”:
do not let the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the
devil. Let him who stole steal no longer, but rather let him
labor, working with his hands what is good, that he may
have something to give him who has need. Let no corrupt word
proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary
edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers. And do not
grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the
day of redemption. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and
evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind
to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as
God in Christ forgave you.
See:
Husbands, Wives, Reconciliation,
Love Others, Divorce